Debbie downer wedding party member?

explain to her that her complaints havent gone unnoticed but you are the bride and she should not be putting the added stress of her drama on your shoulders. She agreed to be a bridesmaid to make things easier for you but it sounds like shes just bringing you down.. if shes a close friend, give her the option to quit the bs and be in your wedding or kick rocks.. ultimately, she will decide but if no one else is complaining there isnt anything to complain about.. dont let her bring you down or spoil this amazing time of your life!! congrats on the wedding!! If you need any other advice or help with your wedding I am a wedding planner and you can email me at planbysamantha@gmail.com!!